Tuesday 21 June 2011

The Golden Future - Life After Quitting Porn

Swing Station USA Top Five Dating Services  You maybe wondering about a life without porn. How sad life can be? Because porn is the thing what brings slight enjoyment to you, and all job we do is to enjoy, right? By the end of the day, what we need is nothing but happiness and enjoyment. Then why quit porn? In this boring life, what shows a little bit heaven is nothing but porn. Then why quit it? Or even if I quit, what is the alternative? What give joy as porn gives?
If I quit porn, how my life will look like? Does life get any better? Or it'll be more boring than my current life?
Majority of porn addicts must be having questions life this.
So how life will be without porn?
Life is a very beautiful experience, Its so vivid that there is always scope for wonder and new. 'New' is never ending. But unfortunately only a few experience it. Porn only shows a fraction of that joy, real life is much more joyful. But all guys does not have access to it.
Only courageous people experience life and its newness. If one experiences 'New' always, then there is no boredom in life, life become like an amazing journey, so many wonders, so many experiences, life become dazzling if one can experience life fully. One will say thanks to god (or any deity) for this wonderful planet and the wonders it contains.
You can see some people who live marvellously, you can see that in their eyes.
Bur if you observe, you can see the fact that for majority of people lacks this spark in their eyes. If you see some of them, you may think like 'this guy just want to die'. Yes. If you look people closely, you see people who are not at all in friendship with existence (or the world), they hate the world, they may not admit consciously, but unconsciously they are living like living in hell, you can read it from their eyes. In their eyes, you see the prayer like 'Oh God! Please take me from this world as soon as possible') many of these people even die quickly(quicker than average death age).
I observed people who show these kind of extreme opposite traits. The major difference I found is nothing but the courage. Of course there are issues like intelligence, patience and all which makes the difference, but the main reason I found is nothing but courage.
Courage is not a thing that make one go to the street and challenge everyone there, courage is nothing but trust towards oneself, trust in positive, Attaining trust is never easy, attaining trust can never be a selfish endeavour too, attaining trust needs good wisdom, (I'll discuss this in another article). But one must realise this and take actions according to it.